Is she perfect? Will she support me no matter what? Will she be able to adjust with me? Or Is she the one whom I should get married with? Perhaps like these, a number of questions might be eating up your head while choosing the right woman for yourself.
Obviously, finding Miss Right for marriage is not at all rocket science (considering women as complicated human being). It’s just that you need right vision to check out the amazing qualities that a woman may possess and the factors which can make you consider her seriously for a real future together.
Well, you might have an endless list of the traits your perfect wife should carry like- she should be hot but not sleazy, talented but not nerdy and so on and on… but there are some essential traits or deciding factors that will guide you in understanding who would be the right woman for marriage.
P.S: Boys, you definitely need to give this list a look.
A great relationship is all about respect and understanding. If she understands you better and tries avoiding misunderstanding between you both, then she can be the one for you.
Moreover, when you finally meet the right girl, you’ll observe that she understands and knows you better than you even know yourself.
2. Efforts and happiness
I believe that a relationship is more about giving than taking. And seeing your partner happy in a relationship must make you feel just as happy. Happiness can come in any form even in the form of care.
Well, keeping all the feelings aside, if a woman puts in more efforts to make and see you happy then she will surely be the one who will love you for an entire life. Also, if you guys continue to show the same excitement as it used to be at the beginning or are focused on each other’s happiness more than anything else then you two possibly make up a right pair.
3. Care, help, support and genuine.
The greatest gift a woman can give to a man is her support. So, if she motivates you to be a better person and helps you to realize your dreams, marry her. Yes, a smart and genuine woman would always want you to be a better version of yourself. This factor is one of dire importance in marriage.
4. You see your life better with her than without her.
Simple and straight-forward. If she adds up to your life and moreover, if you see that your life is better with her rather than being without her, then she is the right girl for you.
However, it’s you who needs to judge and differentiate between the one who influences your life positively and who is throwing a negative impact. Coz basically, in love, a man’s judgment ability gets soften, and the emotions and feelings tend to dominate more on him.
5. When you don’t feel the need to change yourself for her.
In a true relationship, the partners do not try and change each other as they already accept the unique peculiarities ever since they start dating.
Guys, in your case, ‘Miss Right’ will accept the way you are. If she respects your consistency, the way you have been till now and the way you think to be forever, then perhaps, she is the one you need to get married to. Also, to be noted that you’ll always be comfortable in front of the right girl and she will always see you perfect no matter what it takes. As said, nobody is perfect in this world; only we need those eyes to see perfection even in every imperfection.
No relationship can thrive without trust. A strong, lasting relationship can only build when trust is its foundation element. Coz if someone breaks trust, it hurts and the scars that a heartbreak carries might long last than ever. So, it is very important to trust your partner and win the trust of your significant other, especially when the two individuals are deciding on to get married.
Besides, marriage is a long-term commitment, and the ability to retain that trust forever is the only key to a successful marriage.
So, if you have found a woman who cannot even imagine breaking your trust and with whom you could share each and everything, then you may have found the right girl for marriage.
7. You never get bored or sick of being with her.
Looks are fleeting, but personality is forever… It’s truly said that looks gonna fade when you are going to get older but the personality that attracts you today will tend to attract you even after 10, 20 or 30 years of togetherness.
Maybe you don’t find her damn fashionable, but if her persona, ambitions and insightful conversations are keeping you all around her, then she is definitely the one with whom you should get married. And I am sure she will always be the first one to maintain the spark between you two even after the marriage. So, do not waste too much time!
8. Similar hobbies, values, and interests.
Shared views, hobbies, interests, and likes are a few factors that help a person to relate himself more easily with the significant other.
So, if you and your girl like same TV series, books, places, that’s just superb because life living with the one who has similar lifestyle and way of operating is a big thing. Though you guys might even carry different interests or possess varied hobbies but if life’s core values are similar then you gonna make a great married couple.
It’s a clear concept, people who choose similar paths for life tend to remain together for a longer time in future.
9. If she is family oriented…
A woman who respects and values her and your family is the one who will always want to have a family of her own. See, it is quite obvious that the one whom you are dating and any of your family members might carry clashing personalities or characteristics as it is not at all mandatory to meet such people in life who share similar traits like us (considering the uniqueness in all of us) but how easily you forget those clashes or resolve back is what matters the most.
However, if you find no change in the ‘on-going clashes’, you should start taking it as a signal that she is not the one you should get married to. Coz this very thing might trouble you damn hard in the long term.
Well, on the other hand, if your girl likes your family and ‘guys gang’ and easily get along with your loved ones then she is the right girl for you to settle down.
To be honest, her love for family will show the love to build a family with you!
10. Physical chemistry
Intimacy is very important in a relationship. Be it wild sex, drunk sex, morning sex or lazy sex, if it always turns out to be the best when you are with the person you are meant to be and you always wish to be, then you should actually consider her as your partner for marriage. As a certain level of physical chemistry is must in a relationship, it will keep you and your girl happy even after so many years of marriage.
Well, guys, after going through all the mentioned points, you must have probably got which traits to look for while marrying and what are those qualities that will indicate you that the girl you have chosen is the right one to tie the knots.